Discover who Jaeda is...

I am Jaeda...

 

My name means goodness and wise.

That's indeed the core of who I am, and of what I can offer you.

Perhaps it isn't what you expect from your 'mistress',

but with love, goodness and wisdom I take the whip or cane in my hand for your well being.

For your still hidden potential.

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At one and I am just a regular woman, at the other hand I am different than others.

I am around 50 years old, have sparkling eyes, humor

and I am a  serious (!) BBW (or in other words: I have a lush Rubens figure).

I live in the area of Eindhoven with my two sweet cats and I work as a social worker/therapist.

In my early youth I already longed for spanking, and later for bdsm in general.

In that time as submissive.

In the years of my adulthood and relationships I got experienced with several forms of bdsm.

Especially the effect of spanking, flogging, caning, over the knee, discipline, punishment

and reaching catharsis had and still have my full attention.

Besides my experiences as a submissive I also learned about how to give spankings and floggings.

I was taught by a befriended professional mistress in the US.

A mistress who was very familiar with the deep psychological and energetic effect

of spanking and flogging (in all its forms).

A deep reaching, serious form, which isn't so known here in the Netherlands and Belgium.

She was someone who used it as a tool to guide her submissives further in their inner processes.

Her outcome was the wellbeing of her submissives.

I also had the opportunity to experience her guidance and that still is very valuable to me.

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Because of these experiences and because of my interest in psychology, therapy,

inner and energetic work and spirituality

I got passionate about these much deeper meanings of spanking, discipline and punishment.

Besides my submissive part I also have a dominant part when it includes forms of mentorship.

The consent that allows me to really touch, literally and emotionally,

on vulnerabilities, pain, grief and also (always) on potential

I find awesome and makes me deeply grateful.

That's why I combine both qualities in my practice...

So, my way of working is serious and not a play.

Humor is also an important aspect of me and my way of working.

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I don't label myself as a mistress, my name Jaeda will be enough.

If I think it is better for your process that you do call me mistress, then I will let you know.

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Last but not least:

I am a disciplinarian!

Meaning: not an all-round bdsm mistress.

I only coach, mentor and guide you

including using tools like spanking, flogging, caning, over the knee, and so on.

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P.S. I don't anwer on meaningless short messages or when it is obvious you didn't read...

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