Frequent asked questions
Is it possible to first getting to know you?
Yes, it even is a must... I always meet you first at a neutral location. This meeting is free of engagement and only will cost you my cup of coffee. If we have a match, then we schedule our (first) session. A feeling of a personal match is also necessary for me because of the depth I work with and for.
If you come from far you can ask me to reserve the time right after our first meeting, so we can go on for the first session right away, if we have a match.
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How old are you?
I am around 50 years old...
Are other aspects from bdsm possible too?
No, I am not a bdsm mistress, but a disciplinarian, meaning that I don't do sexual things, bondages or any other form of pain or humiliation. I only take care of you through talking, spanking, flogging, caning, over the knee, etc. The only things that could be an exception are very simple bondage to make sure you cannot escape, a blindfold and a gag.
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Where are you located?
Eindhoven, south-east of the Netlerlands,
1 1/2 hour from Amsterdam
(a bit longer with public transport)
Do you also ...?
Now I have to stop you. Further questions about what I can do or won't do, or about what you can or can't do, only can be asked through email. Though there is not much possible other than what I have explained on this website.
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How do you look like?
I am a true BBW (Rubens figure),
short red hair
and sparkling grey/blue eyes...